A High-Value Letter to Spark Curiosity in a Distant Ex

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Use this when an ex has gone "cold." It’s designed to show a complete shift in energy from "pursuer" to "empowered individual."

Dear [Name], I wanted to send a quick note to say thank you. I know that sounds strange given how things ended, but the space we’ve had has been the greatest gift I could have asked for. I’ve realized that I was holding onto our relationship so tightly because I was afraid of being alone. Since we stopped talking, I’ve had to face that fear, and I’ve actually found a version of myself that I really like. I’m back into [mention a hobby or passion], and I’m finally moving forward with [mention a career or personal goal]. I no longer look back with sadness or regret. I look back with gratitude for what we shared and for the wake-up call the breakup provided. You’re an incredible person, and I’m glad you were part of my journey. I’m headed out on a new chapter now, but I wanted to leave things on a positive, healthy note. Take care of yourself, [Your Name]

Writing Tips

•Use "Gratitude" instead of "Longing.
•Show that you are thriving independently.
•Do not ask for a meeting (wait for them to respond to your new energy).